This year was even more special. A long time resident to the sland, Captain Al, turned 80 on Dec. 25th and we turned out to wish him the best. The place was fully decorated and a special corner was dedicated to Capt. Al. Thanks to Geri for being the creative genius behind the decorations; she made a gingerbread house, German sweets for desert, a replica of Capt. Al's first boat and spent many, many hours putting everything together. Her trusty helper, Cathy, helped put up the Christmas tree and hang the crepe paper, streamers and balloons. Santa was donated (for the day) by George and Ginger along with other Christmas decorations.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Even Santa made it!
This year was even more special. A long time resident to the sland, Captain Al, turned 80 on Dec. 25th and we turned out to wish him the best. The place was fully decorated and a special corner was dedicated to Capt. Al. Thanks to Geri for being the creative genius behind the decorations; she made a gingerbread house, German sweets for desert, a replica of Capt. Al's first boat and spent many, many hours putting everything together. Her trusty helper, Cathy, helped put up the Christmas tree and hang the crepe paper, streamers and balloons. Santa was donated (for the day) by George and Ginger along with other Christmas decorations.
Monday, December 22, 2008
Ruins on the Island
Monday, December 15, 2008
They're back!
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Tis the Season!
It is that time of year when mankind looks inward to examine his/her life, ponder the mysteries of our very being and reflect on their past. I am not exempt from this reflection and welcome this time of year as one that brings great happiness in the form of memories and thankfulness for my life and where I am heading.
I was raised as a Lutheran and even though my parents did not attend church regularly or display any form of religious ritual in my life other than the celebrations at Easter and Christmas, I was pointed in the direction of learning about my God, my values and the teachings of the Church. I was baptized, confirmed and married within the structure of my Lutheran teachings and, even though now in my adult life when I question some of the teachings and have doubts about them (I may be considered an agnostic now), I still do not deny the presence of a Supreme Being, even though that presence is only strengthened by faith and difficult to substantiate with facts.
Be that as it may, I love the celebration of Christmas. The mere fact that it is a time when families traditionally come together or, if that is not possible, communication with friends and loved ones is made and wishes for good health, goodness, love and happiness brings a sense of “oneness” with those we love.
I decorate our home with items that I have had with me for years, each one reminding me of the individual that gave it to me or made it in love for me. Things I have purchased over the years remind me of special times in my life and those I was spending my time with. I have gifts from my children, sister-in-law, friends and, even business acquaintances, all of which, when I see them, remind me that at that moment in time I was being thought of and remembered.
I have an ornament, a wooden soldier, painted by my son when he was a young boy which for anyone else would not be special but to me I wouldn't trade it for anything. I have a crocheted Angel made for me by a wonderful friend I met on the island. There is a stained-glass hibiscus set on a mahony stand whose purpose is to accept a lit candel behind it to make it glow from another dear friend of mine. My sister-in-law crocheted me an afghan, made me an angel out of clothesline and sewed/quilted a Christmas tree skirt, all of which is a constant reminder of the hours she spent toiling over these items just to make my Christmas a little brighter. I have a music box and a Christmas blanket which was given to me by a friend and fellow employee with whom I worked for many years which, when I look at them I am reminded of the deep friendship we have. My oldest friend sent me an Angel which she purchased out of love to celebrate our 47+ years of friendship. I had an USF ornament given to me by my daughter when she attended the University and can recall it every year in my mind as, unfortunately, it broke a few years ago. Another good friend painted me a ribbon with cherubs on it which when I unwrap it every year, I remember her artistic talents and unfailing friendship. No, I don't need "gifts" to remind me of my friends and family but they do serve to stir fond memories.
I have a collection of dated tree ornaments which, when I take them out of their wrapping to decorate our tree, I am reminded of specific times in my life and what was occurring when I bought them. I crocheted snowflakes one year for our tree and the tree is not complete without them. I have a Nativity Scene by Precious Moments which took me several years to obtain and always has a special place in my home during Christmas.
Yes, these are all “things”, but they bring a peace to me by reminding me of good times in the past and of the love of friends and family and they are also a reflection of my past. They tie me to my family and friends even more so during this time of year when good will towards men is on the mind. Could I celebrate Christmas without these items? To be honest, no, I could not. For they unlock memories which are in the back of my mind all year and only come forth when I bring them out and then they bring a smile to my face and flood my being with the feeling of happiness and goodness.
So, while Christmas is the celebration of a Savior born, to me it is a special time to reflect on my life, my family and friends and extend to them my love and wishes for all that is good in life. A time to hope for good will among men, peace for all and a hope that we can all respect each others beliefs, strengths and weaknesses.
Monday, December 8, 2008
The Quiet is Broken
Friday, November 21, 2008
I think the warranty just ran out!
Well, I’m at a crossroads of life, at least I think that is the wall I’ve run up to.
This month I turned 65. Yow! When did that creep up on me? The last thing I remember was standing over the crib just before the birth of my youngest daughter (who is now 36 years old) thinking, “The next time I turn around, she or he will be in college!” Well, she was born, she did go to college, she graduated, she had children and I’m still wondering “What happened to yesterday?”
Not that I mind being 65. You see, I’ve never thought of myself as old and age never really bothered me all that much. To some extent, living on the island has made me feel younger. I get sufficient exercise, I eat less “junk” food, I expand my mind with tasks like reading, sewing, and cooking, yard work, blogging and creating “published” works. Of course now the exercise includes mainly just a lot of walking and the yard work consists of telling my workman what I want done. Oh, occasionally I pitch in with the planting and pulling of weeds, but those occasions are getting to be less and less. And, I must admit, if I lived back in the States, I would be spending more time at a desk and/or, ultimately, in front of a T.V. and being a lot more stressed. So, while we have frustrating moments here, they are moments that can be dealt with without going into orbit.
My Grandmother was never old – she was what a Grandmother, in my mind, was supposed to be. A heavy-set woman with lots of folds to cuddle in, a handkerchief in her bosom, a stick of gum to give the little ones to keep them quiet in church and funny-looking supportive shoes. She had gray hair, always wore a dress and always had a smile for me. Of course, when I look at that definition, I don’t have any idea what my Grandchildren (all 6 of them) think of me!
But back to the celebration! My female friends on the island and I got together to toast my 65th birthday. It was a wonderful day and, in spite of the rough seas, we all forged ahead, climbed in our respective boats and made the wet, rough trip out to a small Cay off the island which is owned by a lovely German couple. We were joined by two women from
They sang the traditional Happy Birthday song and they even put up decorations in my honor.
We laughed talked, enjoyed each other’s company and took pictures. For posterity, I turned to the young German woman of 20 and told her “When you celebrate your 65th birthday, please think of the crazy American woman you met on Guanaja on her 65th birthday. Even though I will be dead, remember I wished you a happy birthday!”